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grudge

[ gruhj ]

noun

  1. a feeling of ill will or resentment:

    to hold a grudge against a former opponent.

    Synonyms: bitterness, hatred, enmity, malevolence, rancor



adjective

  1. done, arranged, etc., in order to settle a grudge:

    The middleweight fight was said to be a grudge match.

verb (used with object)

, grudged, grudg·ing.
  1. to give or permit with reluctance; submit to unwillingly:

    The other team grudged us every point we scored.

  2. to resent the good fortune of (another); begrudge:

    A lot of people grudge those billionaires all that money.

    Synonyms: envy

verb (used without object)

, grudged, grudg·ing.
  1. Obsolete. to feel dissatisfaction or ill will.

grudge

/ ɡrʌdʒ /

noun

  1. a persistent feeling of resentment, esp one due to some cause, such as an insult or injury
  2. modifier planned or carried out in order to settle a grudge

    a grudge fight

“Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged” 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012


verb

  1. tr to give or allow unwillingly
  2. to feel resentful or envious about (someone else's success, possessions, etc)
“Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged” 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012
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Derived Forms

  • ˈgrudgingly, adverb
  • ˈgrudgeless, adjective
  • ˈgrudger, noun
  • ˈgrudging, adjective
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Other Words From

  • grudgeless adjective
  • grudger noun
  • un·grudged adjective
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Word History and Origins

Origin of grudge1

First recorded in 1400–50; late Middle English grudgen, gruggen, variant of gruchen, from Old French gro(u)c(h)ier, from Germanic; compare Middle High German grogezen “to complain, cry out”
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Word History and Origins

Origin of grudge1

C15: from Old French grouchier to grumble, probably of Germanic origin; compare Old High German grunnizōn to grunt
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Idioms and Phrases

see bear a grudge ; nurse a grudge .
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Synonym Study

Grudge, malice, spite refer to ill will held against another or others. A grudge is a feeling of resentment harbored because of some real or fancied wrong: to hold a grudge because of jealousy; She has a grudge against him. Malice is the state of mind that delights in doing harm, or seeing harm done, to others, whether expressing itself in an attempt seriously to injure or merely in sardonic humor: malice in watching someone's embarrassment; to tell lies about someone out of malice. Spite is petty, and often sudden, resentment that manifests itself usually in trifling retaliations: to reveal a secret out of spite.
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Example Sentences

It would be good for the girls to see, too, that you can respect their decision fully and still not carry their grudges into the adult friendships.

An eagerness to promote short-term grievances into long-term grudges is detrimental to family harmony.

Ah, the holiday spirit — and its many ways to bear a grudge.

His stories did what many big-city columnists’ stories have done over the decades, grinding axes and nursing grudges.

I’m not going to sit here and carry a grudge just because people expect me to carry it.

We Micks only hold a grudge about such things for 300 years or so.

One nabob even seems to have commandeered the challenge to reignite an old grudge.

Of course, this theory makes sense as the answer to a question like, “Why is Solange holding a grudge against Jay Z?”

But I meant it less as you holding a grudge and more as… Of course I had to register the protest.

Consider what The Ring, The Grudge, Dark Water, Pulse, and a slew of other horror remakes have to add.

This would be an awful blow to us out here, would be a sign that Providence had some grudge against the Dardanelles.

It was miserable economy indeed to grudge a reward of a few thousands to one who had made the State richer by millions.

I grudge no trouble in the duty that Providence has forced upon me of superintending the lives of any of my girls.

In any case, after the first hours of bitterness, Tchaikovsky bore no grudge against the faithless lady.

Now he had a new grudge against Louis de Valmont; to the sins of the master had been added those of the men.

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More About Grudge

What does grudge mean?

A grudge is a feeling of anger, bitterness, or resentment toward someone for something they did, especially a wrong that you think they committed against you.

The word grudge is typically used to refer to such a feeling when it has been held for a long period of time—often longer than is considered normal.

For that reason, grudge is often used in phrases like hold a grudge, nurse a grudge, bear a grudge, and harbor a grudge. 

Grudges are usually directed toward people, but a person can hold a grudge against a group or an entity like a company or organization. The word grudge is often followed by the word against and whom or what the grudge is directed toward, as in Your father still holds a grudge against that pizzeria for getting his order wrong that one time. 

A grudge match is a competition, such as a boxing match, between opponents who have (or are depicted as having) some specific, personal reason for being bitter rivals.

Less commonly, grudge can be used as a verb meaning to resent or envy someone else’s good fortune, as in Don’t grudge them for their success. The related verb begrudge can be used to mean the same thing. Grudge can also mean to give or allow with reluctance or unwillingness, as in My company has grudged me every raise I have requested. The verb begrudge doesn’t necessarily mean the same thing as this sense of grudge. Specifically, begrudge often means to be reluctant to give or allow—as opposed to meaning to give or allow reluctantly.

Example: She has held a grudge against me ever since I beat her in the spelling bee in fifth grade.

Where does grudge come from?

The first records of the word grudge come from the 1400s. It comes from the Old French grouchier, which means “to grumble” and is also the basis of the word grouch. Grudge is probably related to the Middle High German word grogezen, meaning “to complain, cry out.”

When a person holds a grudge, it’s often due to treatment or an action that’s considered unforgivable by the person holding the grudge. Usually this involves a personal slight (or perceived personal slight), but a person can hold a grudge against someone they don’t even know. A lot of grudges are held for petty reasons, including things that the supposed wrongdoer doesn’t even know that they did. The opposite of holding a grudge can be thought of as forgiving and forgetting (or letting it go).

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What are some other forms related to grudge?

  • grudging (continuous tense verb, adjective)
  • grudgingly (adverb)

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How is grudge used in real life?

Grudge is most commonly used as a noun. People hold grudges for all kinds of reasons.

 

Try using grudge!

Is grudge used correctly in the following sentence?

Instead of grudging their win, you could try congratulating them and moving on.

Definitions and idiom definitions from Dictionary.com Unabridged, based on the Random House Unabridged Dictionary, © Random House, Inc. 2023

Idioms from The American Heritage® Idioms Dictionary copyright © 2002, 2001, 1995 by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Publishing Company. Published by Houghton Mifflin Harcourt Publishing Company.

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