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either-or

American  
[ee-ther-awr, ahy-ther-] / ˈi ðərˈɔr, ˈaɪ ðər- /

adjective

  1. allowing no equivocation; being limited in choice to two options.

    It's an either-or situation—you pay the bill or you lose the company's services.


either-or British  

adjective

  1. presenting an unavoidable need to choose between two alternatives

    an either-or situation

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Etymology

Origin of either-or

First recorded in 1925–30

Example Sentences

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I'm not one of those either-or people, but I can make a stronger case that we have our own homegrown traditions of reaction and authoritarianism that we need to take seriously.

From Salon • Apr. 4, 2025

“It finally breaks the logjam around here and gets the process functioning again. It’s not an either-or choice,” Ms. Lummis said of the emergency aid for Israel and Ukraine.

From Washington Times • Oct. 31, 2023

“This is not an either-or situation,” Anenberg says.

From Scientific American • Sep. 22, 2023

“It’s not an either-or, so it’s a false dichotomy.”

From Seattle Times • Sep. 6, 2023

“Mia Oh-My- Uh. I’m not giving anything up. It’s not an either-or proposition. Teaching or music. Jeans or suits. Music will always be a part of my life.”

From "If I Stay" by Gayle Forman