Slang dictionary
tea
[ tee ]
What does tea mean?
Best served piping hot, tea is slang for “gossip,” a juicy scoop, or other personal information.
Where does tea come from?
Tea refers to gossip or other private information. As far as we can tell, it was steeped in black drag culture.
One theory connects tea to the celebrated drag performer The Lady Chablis, who is quoted in the 1994 bestseller Midnight in the Garden of Good and Evil: “Yeah, my T. My thing, my business, what’s goin’ on in my life.” T, here, is short for truth.
The slang tea may riff on The Lady Chablis’s T as well as on tea parties, at which well-to-do Southern women are popularly imagined to gossip. The term is especially found in the expression spilling the tea, or dishing out the gossip, associated with black gay slang.
Today on #TheEncore we have @DustyRayBottoms from Ru Paul's Drag race in studio with #FitzyAndBrandz. We will be spilling the tea on what it's like to be an international drag superstar! pic.twitter.com/cVqEZywg5c
— Good Hope FM (@GoodHopeFM) January 22, 2019
Tea spread thanks in part to RuPaul’s Drag Race starting in 2009. The reality show frequently uses (spilling the) tea for “gossip.” Meanwhile, talk show host Wendy Williams, has been known to drink actual tea while spilling some tea on her Wendy Williams Show.
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One internet-famous tea-sipper is The Muppets‘s Kermit the Frog. In it, he is smugly taking a sip of Lipton tea and remarking “But that’s none of my business,” used to throw shade. It emerged as early as 2014 and is sometimes used, true to the slang tea, in contexts of gossip.
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Examples of tea
Omg so here’s the tea so today this girl when I wasn’t at school talking mess behind my back and she my friend so when I got to school the next day it’s all hey I missed you and all that and I was just confused smh (shaking my head)
Who uses tea?
The black gay and drag communities stills love tea, which spread into a more mainstream vernacular thanks to the popularity of RuPaul’s Drag Race.
clean up on aisle 8 cause the tea has been spilled https://t.co/sda5WuJsNT
— 🅱️ristian (@twerk4gaga) June 11, 2015
You can spill the tea like you would use the more common expression spill the beans.
Other tea expressions include no tea no shade, what’s the tea sis, and that’s the tea.
It’s also common to see tea being used as a reaction to someone revealing some sensational information (e.g., Tea!).
girls hate on you once they feel intimidated and that’s the actual tea sis
— Alysha bri (@alyshabriannaa) February 18, 2019
Note
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