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girlfriend effect
girlfriend air [ gurl-frend ih-fekt ]
What does girlfriend effect mean?
The term girlfriend effect or girlfriend air refers to an alleged phenomenon during which a person becomes more fashionable and attractive after they get a girlfriend.
The term girlfriend effect is nearly always used to refer to men, but it is also sometimes used to refer to women who get girlfriends as well.
The term girlfriend effect is mostly used in a trend on TikTok. The trend typically contrasts pictures of a person before and after meeting their girlfriend or getting married. Typically, the person becomes more fashionable, attractive, or muscular after entering into a romantic relationship. Sometimes, the only actual difference is the person starts wearing clothing considered fashionable by TikTok users.
Where does girlfriend effect come from?
The term girlfriend effect combines the words girlfriend and effect. The term refers to the effect that having a girlfriend has on someone, namely that they become more attractive and fashionable.
Girlfriend effect seems to have emerged as a response to the older term boyfriend air. Boyfriend air refers to a supposed phenomenon during which women become less attractive or less concerned with their appearance after having a boyfriend for an extended period.
Around September 2023, a trend emerged in which TikTok users pointed out that girlfriend air or the girlfriend effect has the opposite effect on men: Men become more attractive or are more concerned with their appearance after gaining a girlfriend. As part of the trend, users share pictures of men taken before and after they get in a relationship. The trend allegedly proves that the girlfriend effect is real by demonstrating that men become more fashionable or attractive because they have a girlfriend.
@niklassz glow up since I met him 🤓😂🤝🏼 #glowupeffect #relationship #couple #foryoupage #fypシ #relationshipgoals #niklasundgreta #glowup #girlfriendeffect @Greta Löckener
@manon.terles ig @manon.terles🫶🏼🫶🏼 #couple #girlfriendeffect
Examples of girlfriend effect
Who uses girlfriend effect?
The term girlfriend effect emerged as part of a TikTok trend, so it is most commonly used on that platform. However, the term is also used elsewhere to refer to men and sometimes women becoming more attractive and fashionable after getting girlfriends.
can the girlfriend effect hit me without even having one, pls i waNnA loOK hOt too :’>
— Samuel D. (@samueldouni) October 30, 2023
all of the “girlfriend effect” style transformation tiktoks are literally just making your boyfriend look like a zara mannequin
— rome sequel (@same2_same2) September 28, 2023
The Girlfriend Effect Is Real!
Boyfriends who spend time with their girlfriends tend to dress better, take better care of themselves, and become more confident overall. 😀
— ANKIT (@TheUrbanHunk) October 4, 2023
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