Gender & Sexuality dictionary
t-girl
or T-girl [ tee-gurl ]
What does t-girl mean?
A t-girl is a term for a transgender girl or woman. While some in the LGBTQ community embrace the term, others find it offensive.
Where does t-girl come from?
T-girl is based on transgender woman or trans woman, a person who was assigned male at birth but whose gender identity is female. T is short for trans(gender) and girl, of course, is a term for a young female. The transgender man equivalent of a t-girl is t-boy.
Early instances of t-girl online are found in personals posted on gender-and-sexuality-based Usenet groups in the late 1990s. Today, t-girl is sometimes used in the pornography industry to label or promote content. Some have argued that this use of t-girl fetishizes or objectifies transgender woman. Others, such as a self-identified transgender commentator Daniella Argento in 2018 blog post on the term, have observed:
Wherever the usage is, the pornographer follows. However, I simply cannot agree that a word being used by a pornographer invalidates other uses of that word. It is simply a nonsensical argument. Using obscenities in polite society does not raise their register. Using high register words to describe obscenity does not destroy the meaning of the word.
Examples of t-girl
Who uses t-girl?
The term t-girl is disputed within the LGBTQ community. Some transgender woman identify as t-girls. As noted, others find t-girl offensive, especially because the term is associated with pornography featuring transgender women.
Having @saharaknite draped over you is one of the most fundamentally wonderful experiences a t-girl can have 😍 pic.twitter.com/ydq4nqpMac
— Rebecca B (@Superbreeze_Bex) July 28, 2019
Given that some people may be offended, it’s always best to ask a person about their identification preferences. Additionally, calling a woman a girl (outside contexts where women themselves are using it playfully or affectionately) is sexist.
hey if you’re cisgender you’re not allowed to use tr*nny, t-girl, transgenders, transgenderism and a number of other things. whether you’re talking to a queer person or not! be respectful. these terms are outdated and offensive!
— lady luck Ⓥ (@gorestruly666) June 24, 2019
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