reconcile
Americanverb (used with object)
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to cause (a person) to accept or be resigned to something not desired.
He was reconciled to his fate.
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to win over to friendliness; cause to become amicable.
to reconcile hostile persons.
- Synonyms:
- placate, propitiate, pacify
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to compose or settle (a quarrel, dispute, etc.).
- Antonyms:
- anger
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to bring into agreement or harmony; make compatible or consistent.
to reconcile differing statements;
to reconcile accounts.
- Synonyms:
- harmonize
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to reconsecrate (a desecrated church, cemetery, etc.).
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to restore (an excommunicate or penitent) to communion in a church.
verb (used without object)
verb
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to make (oneself or another) no longer opposed; cause to acquiesce in something unpleasant
she reconciled herself to poverty
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to become friendly with (someone) after estrangement or to re-establish friendly relations between (two or more people)
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to settle (a quarrel or difference)
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to make (two apparently conflicting things) compatible or consistent with each other
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to reconsecrate (a desecrated church, etc)
Usage
What does reconcile mean? Reconcile means to make amends, come to a truce, or settle a dispute.Reconcile can also mean to make things compatible or consistent with each other. This sense of the word is especially used when discussing two things that cannot be reconciled, such as two contrasting beliefs.Another sense of the word means to cause to accept a negative situation or become resigned to it, as in I am reconciled to my fate of never being able to afford my dream house. The noun form of reconcile is reconciliation, which refers to the process of reconciling. It’s also the name of a Catholic sacrament involving the confession of sin.Example: After years of not speaking to each other, the two finally sat down and reconciled.
Other Word Forms
- prereconcile verb (used with object)
- prereconcilement noun
- quasi-reconciled adjective
- reconcilement noun
- reconciler noun
- reconciliation noun
- reconciliatory adjective
- reconcilingly adverb
- unreconciled adjective
- unreconciling adjective
Etymology
Origin of reconcile
First recorded in 1300–50; Middle English reconcilen, from Latin reconciliāre “to make good again, repair,” equivalent to re- re- + conciliāre “to bring together” ( conciliate )
Example Sentences
Examples are provided to illustrate real-world usage of words in context. Any opinions expressed do not reflect the views of Dictionary.com.
“Rather, the Court directed the Province of B.C. to negotiate with the Cowichan Nation to reconcile their Aboriginal title with the existing fee simple interests.”
“Forbidden Fruits” can’t reconcile all of its influences and just ends up as a collection of references and high style without much staying power — it’s essentially the fast fashion of girly pop horror.
From Los Angeles Times
The House and Senate haven’t reconciled differences in separate housing bills.
“If one — literally one — person reads this book and picks up the phone and calls their dad and wants to reconcile, then the whole thing was worth it,” Landon Donovan said.
From Los Angeles Times
I’d reconciled myself to our fashions being watered down and thoughtlessly mixed in with other Eastern styles.
From Literature
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