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put-upon

American  
[poot-uh-pon, -pawn] / ˈpʊt əˌpɒn, -ˌpɔn /

adjective

  1. imposed upon; ill-used.


put upon British  

verb

  1. to presume on (a person's generosity, good nature, etc); take advantage of

    he's always being put upon

  2. to impose hardship on; maltreat

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Etymology

Origin of put-upon

First recorded in 1915–20

Example Sentences

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While Mescal’s no stranger to playing the put-upon father in his relatively brief yet prolific career, his brooding verges on laughable.

From Salon • Nov. 30, 2025

But however put-upon we may feel, our kids' failure to overtly and regularly praise us for our maternal virtues is nothing beside the societal lack of appreciation for some of the animal kingdom's great mothers.

From Salon • May 11, 2025

His character Alejandro desperately needs someone to sponsor his work visa, and he thinks he may have found that person in Tilda Swinton’s Elizabeth, a caustic, put-upon art critic.

From Seattle Times • Mar. 5, 2024

As Greene, the much put-upon wife of David’s manager, played by Jeff Garlin, Essman is more than just a fan favorite.

From New York Times • Feb. 1, 2024

Hermione was already queuing outside, carrying an armful of heavy books and looking put-upon.

From "Harry Potter and the Half-Blood Prince" by J.K. Rowling