abide

American  

[uh-bahyd] / əˈbaɪd /

verb (used without object)

abode, abided, abiding

1. to remain; continue; stay.

   Abide with me.

   Synonyms:

   tarry

2. to have one's abode; dwell; reside.

   to abide in a small Scottish village.

   Synonyms:

   live

3. to continue in a particular condition, attitude, relationship, etc.; last.

   Synonyms:

   endure, persevere

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verb (used with object)

abode, abided, abiding

1. to put up with; tolerate; stand.

   I can't abide dishonesty!

   Synonyms:

   support, brook, endure, bear

2. to endure, sustain, or withstand without yielding or submitting.

   to abide a vigorous onslaught.

3. to wait for; await.

   to abide the coming of the Lord.

4. to accept without opposition or question.

   to abide the verdict of the judges.

5. to pay the price or penalty of; suffer for.

verb phrase

1. abide by

   1. to act in accord with.

   2. to submit to; agree to.

      to abide by the court's decision.

   3. to remain steadfast or faithful to; keep.

      If you make a promise, abide by it.

abide British  

/ əˈbaɪd /

verb

1. (tr) to tolerate; put up with

2. (tr) to accept or submit to; suffer

   to abide the court's decision

3. 1. to comply (with)

      to abide by the decision

   2. to remain faithful (to)

      to abide by your promise

4. (intr) to remain or continue

5. archaic (intr) to dwell

6. archaic (tr) to await in expectation

7. archaic (tr) to withstand or sustain; endure

   to abide the onslaught

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abide Idioms  

More idioms and phrases containing abide

• can't stand (abide)

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Other Word Forms

• abidance noun
• abider noun

Etymology

Origin of abide

First recorded before 1000; Middle English abiden, Old English ābīdan; cognate with Old High German irbītan “to await,” Gothic usbeisns “expectation, patience”; equivalent to a- ³ + bide

Explanation

Abide means "to be able to live with or put up with." If you can't abide with something, it means you can't stand it. If you can abide it, it means you can live with it. An old definition of abide is "to live" — think of abode, as in "dwelling." If you abide by the rules, it means you live with them, and you will follow them. If you can't abide your sister's shrill violin playing, it means you can't live with it, you can't be in the house when she's practicing. You abide something you don't like, like your teacher's long stories about math. It's not a pleasant experience, but what choice do you have?

Example Sentences

While most tech companies have pledged to abide by Australian laws, they have warned that the heavy-handed move could simply push teens to darker, less-regulated corners of the internet.

From Barron's • Mar. 30, 2026

And then there are the many authors who can’t abide working in a room of their own.

From The Wall Street Journal • Mar. 27, 2026

If she wishes to continue to receive your financial support, it makes sense that she should abide by your rules.

From MarketWatch • Mar. 26, 2026

The Geneva Conventions’ protocols made such acts illegal, but as we’re discovering with alarming frequency and force these days, laws are only as effective as our willingness to abide by them.

From Salon • Mar. 20, 2026

Unable to abide not knowing what had happened, I climbed back upon the wall and looked into the garden.

From "Crispin: The Cross of Lead" by Avi

Related Words

• accept
• stand for
• tolerate