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pleasantry

American  
[plez-uhn-tree] / ˈplɛz ən tri /

noun

plural

pleasantries
  1. good-humored teasing; banter.

  2. a humorous or jesting remark.

  3. a courteous social remark used to initiate or facilitate a conversation.

    to exchange pleasantries.

  4. a humorous action.


pleasantry British  
/ ˈplɛzəntrɪ /

noun

  1. (often plural) an agreeable or amusing remark, often one made in order to be polite

    they exchanged pleasantries

  2. an agreeably humorous manner or style

  3. rare enjoyment; pleasantness

    a pleasantry of life

"Collins English Dictionary — Complete & Unabridged" 2012 Digital Edition © William Collins Sons & Co. Ltd. 1979, 1986 © HarperCollins Publishers 1998, 2000, 2003, 2005, 2006, 2007, 2009, 2012

Etymology

Origin of pleasantry

1645–55; < French plaisanterie, Old French plesanterie. See pleasant, -ry

Example Sentences

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It’s unclear if this is a plea or a pleasantry.

From The Wall Street Journal • Mar. 27, 2026

After emerging from the car, and before they walked the picket line, Slater and Harrah exchanged a nonverbal pleasantry.

From Los Angeles Times • Jun. 6, 2020

In a different version of Washington — something in the ballpark of the old normal, whatever that was — the sentiment could be ignored as a boilerplate pleasantry.

From New York Times • Nov. 13, 2019

Murray seemed embarrassed, mumbled some pleasantry, then turned away.

From Scientific American • Jun. 6, 2019

“Ah! continue. A little pleasantry on my part, that is all. So you went along to Madame la Princesse. And what did you do when you got there?”

From "Murder on the Orient Express" by Agatha Christie