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diffidently

American  
[dif-i-duhnt-lee] / ˈdɪf ɪ dənt li /

adverb

  1. in a way that shows lack of confidence in one’s own ability, worth, or fitness; timidly or shyly.

    He saw her approaching rather diffidently, trying to summon up her courage, smiling an uncertain smile.

  2. in a restrained or reserved way.

    He got them to do the right thing not by scolding or nagging, but by calmly and diffidently laying out the logic of his position.


Other Word Forms

  • nondiffidently adverb
  • undiffidently adverb

Etymology

Origin of diffidently

diffident ( def. ) + -ly

Example Sentences

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“Well,” he began diffidently, “essentially I’m a writer.”

From The Wall Street Journal • Dec. 26, 2025

Yes, we were responding to anonymous prompts, but we were looking, respectfully and diffidently, at a fellow human being.

From Los Angeles Times • May 4, 2021

Manchester entered on its Victory in Europe rejoicings a little diffidently and the day was physically suited to the mood.

From The Guardian • May 6, 2020

Joel smiled diffidently and admitted, "The ball has been bouncing my way so far."

From Golf Digest • Apr. 16, 2020

He began a little diffidently, avoiding her gaze, but he gathered courage as he went along.

From "The God of Small Things" by Arundhati Roy