dog in the manger

[ dawg in thuh meyn-jer, dog ]

noun

1. a person who selfishly keeps something that they do not really need or want so that others may not use or enjoy it.

dog in the manger

noun

1. 1. a person who prevents others from using something he has no use for
   2. ( as modifier )

      a dog-in-the-manger attitude

dog in the manger

1. A person who spitefully refuses to let someone else benefit from something for which he or she has no personal use: “We asked our neighbor for the fence posts he had left over, but, like a dog in the manger, he threw them out rather than give them to us.” The phrase comes from one of Aesop's fables , about a dog lying in a manger full of hay. When an ox tries to eat some hay, the dog bites him, despite the fact that the hay is of no use to the dog.

Other Words From

• dog-in-the-man·ger adjective

Word History and Origins

Origin of dog in the manger¹

First recorded in 1555–65

Idioms and Phrases

One who prevents others from enjoying something despite having no use for it. For example, Why be a dog in the manger? If you aren't going to use those tickets, let someone else have them . This expression alludes to Aesop's fable about a snarling dog that prevents horses from eating fodder that is unpalatable to the dog itself. [Mid-1500s]

Example Sentences

He is not deluded or proud or murderous, just a dog in the manger, a grim Taliban-like puritan who has banned laughter.

From New York Times

The crusaders had their already somewhat familiar backlashes against this 16-year-old climate activist all ready to go, and then this absolute dog in the manger goes and ruins it for them.

From The Guardian

It seemed like every time I ran into Gary he said he was about to quit, but he didn’t quit—playing dog in the manger, in my exasperated view.

From The New Yorker

A muzzled dog’s paw rests on his master’s foot, like a proverbial dog in the manger whose potential for interference has been thwarted.

From Los Angeles Times

Don't think I'm a dog in the manger.

From Project Gutenberg