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deferential

American  
[def-uh-ren-shuhl] / ˌdɛf əˈrɛn ʃəl /

adjective

  1. showing deference; deferent; respectful.

    Synonyms:
    reverential, obedient, dutiful, regardful, courteous

deferential British  
/ ˌdɛfəˈrɛnʃəl /

adjective

  1. marked by or showing deference or respect; respectful

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Etymology

Origin of deferential

1815–25; after deference, by analogy with such pairs as residence: residential

Explanation

When a young person shows respect and obedience to an older person, they’re being deferential to the elder’s wisdom and experience. To be obedient, courteous, or dutiful are all ways of being deferential. Bowing low to the Queen is a deferential act when visiting Buckingham Palace. On sports teams, rookies are usually deferential to the veterans and star players, while all players should be deferential to the coach. All employees are expected to be at least a little deferential to their bosses. Being deferential shows respect, but also means "I know my place, and it's lower than yours."

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The justices are appointed by the Assembly, and are traditionally quite deferential to it.

From Slate • Apr. 24, 2026

But he added an "overly deferential" approach to engaging with them would "almost inevitably creates political challenges or missed positive opportunities".

From BBC • Mar. 10, 2026

Hicks was deferential to the Democratic candidates who have long served in public office and have compelling personal tales and the experience to take the helm of the state.

From Los Angeles Times • Feb. 21, 2026

"He was intensely serious but showed flashes of humour. He encouraged debate although his officers were deferential," Pike wrote in a 2019 book.

From Barron's • Jan. 12, 2026

The hauntingly slow anthem played loudly as the entire corps stopped and stood in the deferential parade rest position until the final note ended.

From "The Other Wes Moore: One Name, Two Fates" by Wes Moore