ambivalent
Americanadjective
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having mixed feelings about someone or something; being unable to choose between two (usually opposing) courses of action.
The whole family was ambivalent about the move to the suburbs.
She is regarded as a morally ambivalent character in the play.
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Psychology. of or relating to the coexistence within an individual of positive and negative feelings toward the same person, object, or action, simultaneously drawing that individual in opposite directions.
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Etymology
Origin of ambivalent
Back formation from ambivalence
Explanation
If you can't decide how you feel about something, declare yourself ambivalent about it. Ambivalent means "having mixed feelings about something." A Swiss psychologist named Eugen Bleuler coined the German word Ambivalenz in the early twentieth century, and it was soon imported into English. Bleuler combined the Latin prefix ambi-, meaning "both," with valentia, "strength." So etymologically speaking, if you're ambivalent you're being pulled by two equally strong things — but in practice, ambivalence often arises from caring very little either way. You might feel ambivalent about your lunch options if you have to choose between a murky stew and flavorless tofu.
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Example Sentences
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We may marry at some point, but I’m ambivalent about it.
From MarketWatch ● Nov. 9, 2026
They are not the most sympathetic lot, and in truth many of us have ambivalent feelings on the death penalty.
From Los Angeles Times ● Nov. 5, 2026
But he's slightly ambivalent on what a mayor would mean for Glasgow, insisting it all really depends on who the person is.
From BBC ● Jul. 31, 2026
Despite its fine leading performances, this time-hopping play by Benedict Lombe struggles to build momentum as it follows the ambivalent attraction between two characters.
From The Wall Street Journal ● Jul. 16, 2026
Her face reset to ambivalent frostiness, but Jessica had already noticed.
From "Here to Stay" by Sara Farizan
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