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ambivalent

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[am-biv-uh-luhnt] / æmˈbɪv ə lənt /

adjective

  1. having mixed feelings about someone or something; being unable to choose between two (usually opposing) courses of action.

    The whole family was ambivalent about the move to the suburbs.

    She is regarded as a morally ambivalent character in the play.

  2. Psychology. of or relating to the coexistence within an individual of positive and negative feelings toward the same person, object, or action, simultaneously drawing that individual in opposite directions.


Other Word Forms

  • ambivalently adverb

Etymology

Origin of ambivalent

Back formation from ambivalence

Explanation

If you can't decide how you feel about something, declare yourself ambivalent about it. Ambivalent means "having mixed feelings about something." A Swiss psychologist named Eugen Bleuler coined the German word Ambivalenz in the early twentieth century, and it was soon imported into English. Bleuler combined the Latin prefix ambi-, meaning "both," with valentia, "strength." So etymologically speaking, if you're ambivalent you're being pulled by two equally strong things — but in practice, ambivalence often arises from caring very little either way. You might feel ambivalent about your lunch options if you have to choose between a murky stew and flavorless tofu.

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Asked about the first weekend at Coachella, one of her biggest opportunities in the States so far, she’s ambivalent.

From Los Angeles Times • Apr. 15, 2026

US President Donald Trump's position however appears more ambivalent.

From Barron's • Apr. 9, 2026

While ChatGPT sometimes shuts down this line of questioning, Claude is more ambivalent in its response.

From The Wall Street Journal • Feb. 9, 2026

Yet, even at the height of fame, he chooses to remain on the margins of celebrity culture, visibly ambivalent about his own success.

From BBC • Jan. 28, 2026

But by the time we were ten, we’d grown more ambivalent about it.

From "Never Let Me Go" by Kazuo Ishiguro