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ambivalent

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[am-biv-uh-luhnt] / æmˈbɪv ə lənt /

adjective

  1. having mixed feelings about someone or something; being unable to choose between two (usually opposing) courses of action.

    The whole family was ambivalent about the move to the suburbs.

    She is regarded as a morally ambivalent character in the play.

  2. Psychology. of or relating to the coexistence within an individual of positive and negative feelings toward the same person, object, or action, simultaneously drawing that individual in opposite directions.


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Etymology

Origin of ambivalent

Back formation from ambivalence

Explanation

If you can't decide how you feel about something, declare yourself ambivalent about it. Ambivalent means "having mixed feelings about something." A Swiss psychologist named Eugen Bleuler coined the German word Ambivalenz in the early twentieth century, and it was soon imported into English. Bleuler combined the Latin prefix ambi-, meaning "both," with valentia, "strength." So etymologically speaking, if you're ambivalent you're being pulled by two equally strong things — but in practice, ambivalence often arises from caring very little either way. You might feel ambivalent about your lunch options if you have to choose between a murky stew and flavorless tofu.

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But he's slightly ambivalent on what a mayor would mean for Glasgow, insisting it all really depends on who the person is.

From BBC Jul. 31, 2026

Most residents told AFP they were ambivalent about the plan, but most also believe the tigers will remain in an enclosure.

From Barron's Jul. 8, 2026

The third group is the truly ambivalent, where I sat.

From Slate Jul. 6, 2026

By the same token, I think a deep love of country can coexist with ambivalent feelings about how the national team performs on the field.

From Salon Jun. 15, 2026

Delbriick’s speedy approval pleased me, for he had ambivalent feelings about the ultimate value to biology of Pauling-like structural studies.

From "Double Helix" by James D. Watson

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